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Lately, I’ve been feeling stuck in the house.  That’s probably because I am literally stuck in the house.  Before we moved to Springfield, we got rid of our second car for a variety of reasons.  It was getting older; it didn’t easily fit a car seat, so we never took Frankie out in it; our new apartment only has one parking space; with me staying home, a second car wasn’t a necessity; and – the biggie – we wanted to save money.

Now, I agree with all of the statements above.  Heck, I think I even argued for those statements above.  But fast forward 6 months later, and I’m stuck in the house in the middle of winter and longing to walk around the mall or Target or the library or any place other than my living room.  Yup, I’m that stay-at-home mom. 

(I just realized that the savings with just one car extend beyond just insurance and gas; add my incessant Target shopping habit.  Why is it that you can enter Target for one thing and then leave with $100 worth of stuff you don’t need?  Target is a marketing genius: make everything just cheap enough and just stylish enough that it leaves the customer begging for more.  Oh Target, you devilish big box store, you).

Having just one car is probably one of the most eco-friendly things we can do as a family, however, and I do have to say that, despite the suckage aspect, I am proud of our decision.  Here’s a few tips I’ve come up with for others who are thinking of ditching the second car:

  • Plan, plan, plan ahead.  It’s not like I never get the car; but during the week, I have to drive hubby to work and pick him up in order to get it.  Right now, he’s schedule on Wednesdays and Thursdays doesn’t allow for it (he’s teaching day and night classes, so I would have to pick him up after Frankie’s bedtime, which wouldn’t make anyone in this family happy).  But I have way more access to the car on other days, and luckily he won’t be teaching at night every semester.  But these things need to be planned.  For instance, on the Tuesdays that I go to MOPS, I have to make sure that all 3 of us are up, dressed, feed, and ready to go by 8:30 am at the latest, and I need to make sure that I pick up hubby at the magical time of after nap time/before dinner/during rush hour and allow enough time to get home and make dinner before my two boys become ravenous beasts.  Just writing all that out exhausted me.
  • Do your errands all together.  To save time and gas, I try to make one day “errand day” (minus grocery day, which is Monday morning and takes forever – don’t ask). 
  • Order stuff online.  If you can’t get to Target, then bring Target to your living room!  Or Amazon!  Or any number of wonderful free shipping websites!  Don’t you just love exclamation points!  Sometimes things can be cheaper online – I order our disposable diapers (used for traveling and poo-related emergencies – again, don’t ask) through Amazon mom, and not only are they cheaper, they literally arrive in less than 24 hours. 
  • Live in a convenient location.  Hubby and I talk about this all the time.  Chalk it up to the few years we lived in the city, but we like to walk to stores and activities.  It’s a novel concept in the suburbs, but it really shouldn’t be.  Right now, we live within walking distance of a few places, such as restaurants, a video store, a bowling alley (not exactly baby friendly, but we plan to check it out someday), a park, and, if you go a little further, a couple of stores.  I’ve even walked to drop off our rent check.  Most subdivisions and suburbs are set up so you CAN’T walk anywhere, but if you plan it right, you can live within walking distance to the library, schools, and other locations.
  • Buy a bike.  OK, I have a confession to make: I am quite possibly the only eco-friendly person out there who doesn’t own a bike.  Forgive me Greenpeace, for I have sinned.  We’ve just been too broke to consider the purchase in the past.  But now that I’m sans second car, it’s looking more and more attractive. 
  • Take the bus.  Easier said than done in some areas, but here in Springfield, there’s a bus that goes down our street every day, all day.  I haven’t mustered up the courage yet to try it out, mostly because I’m afraid of how it’ll go with a two year old.  But one of these days, I’ll force hubby to take a ride for me and figure things out.  It might just be my ticket of stay-at-home boredom.

Of course, this is a huge sacrifice on our parts, and I will admit, it sucks.  A lot sometimes.  Like the time a bunch of my friends got together at the park and invited me and I had to say no because Tony was in Chicago at the time with the car?  Yeah, that day sucked.  But then I remember the money we’re saving, coupled with the fact that we actually can’t afford another car right now, nor do we need one, and I move on.  You can always come visit me, right?  Right?  Guys?


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A strange little story that I want to share….first off, let me say that I like Springfield, IL.  It’s our new home, and while I’m not in love with it YET, so far I have found it very pleasant and a nice place to live.  People are very friendly here, in a small town Southern way (yes, I realize that I do not live in the South, but to Chicagoans, everything south of I-80 is THE SOUTH).  It’s nothing exciting, but not bad either.  That being said, the citizens of this fine town, although a very nice group of citizens, CANNOT DRIVE FOR SHIT.  Pardon my language, but it’s true.  And it’s not in a Chicagoan/New Yorker/LA kind of way, but more in a head-up-their-asses kind of way.  It’s aggressive but not really paying attention aggressive.  Stupid aggressive.

Case in point: driving home the other day, I found myself in the left lane needing to get into the right in order to turn onto our street.  So I saw an opening and, while the car who let me in on the right was driving a tad too fast, s/he still let me in (it was dark, so I couldn’t see who was in the car.  Sorry, I can’t attest to any male/female driver stereotypes).  Let me repeat that: s/he let me in.

Anyways, after I got into the right lane, this person kept getting closer and closer and closer to me, all while I was saying, Are you kidding me?  Are you KIDDING me?  ARE YOU FREAKIN’ KIDDING ME? as they got so close to me that, I swear, I could no longer see their headlights in my rearview mirror.

Was I going slow?   A little, but so were the TWO cars in front of me, so there wasn’t much I could do.  Also, was my 17 month old child in the car?  Absolutely.  So was I about to go any faster and endanger our lives?  Absolutely not.

Anyways, the reason that I’m sharing this story is that when this person swerved quickly to the left, went around me and the other slower cars and across two more lanes, I saw that, not only was this person driving a Prius, their license plate said LIVIN GREEN 3.

HA!  It made me laugh out loud.  So, is this person’s mission to save the earth but screw people?  Drive a Prius to save gas but FUCK YOU OTHER HUMANS!  I have to get to the red light 5 seconds faster than you. 

Oh Springfield drivers, please please please prove me wrong tomorrow.

(Also, I usually don’t swear this much, except when it comes to idiots driving.  I learned that from the pros, and by the pros I mean my mother, who once called another driver, and I quote, a “motherless fuck.”  This woman doesn’t mess around.)

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